MagegrayWolf
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- May 3, 2013
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- Parrots
- Sun Conure (Dunkin)
grey cockatiel (Nalo)
This started several weeks ago. I was sitting with my Sun Conure with him cuddled in my shirt and i was petting him. I had my left hand up near my shoulder and e sudden;y leaped up and bit my thumb on my left hand. Now I make no excuses here, I reacted very poorly to his biting. This even has started a troubling trend though of him constantly trying to bite my left hand.
Prior to this he never really wanted much to do with my left hand and would often shy away from it.
I have tried to do a pausing technique where I place my left hand just within his discomfort zone and take it away in order to get him use to it again. I started giving him treats with my left hand when I put it near him and he doesn't display aggression, which he takes without any aggression. After a while of this I was even able to get him to step up on my left hand, which he would get a treat or get pet or cuddled for doing.
Other work I've done with him has been s during trick training he get's treats with my left hand.
While in his cage I will offer to pet him through the bars with my left hand. he has only accepted a few times which earned him a reward.
Outside of his cage I will offer to pet him maybe once or twice. So far he backs away each time and I immediately withdraw so as not to seem I am forcing the issue. (He is not forced to step up on my left hand either)
Given the non aggression he displays while giving him a treat, I don't believe this is a fear response.
This may be a result of hormones as he has been trying to mate with several random things and the behavior is worse while I'm at my computer (Where the trouble first started)
Other than when I give him treats he seems to not display any aggression when I'm holding my phone in that hand. The aggressive behavior is solely focused on my left hand. I am able to pet him and cuddle him just fine otherwise and he wants to be with me otherwise.
While I have made progress with what I have done, I seem to have reached an impasse. I can go several days without aggression but h will then revert back to the biting. During the good days he does seem to just stare at my left hand. I haven't been able to get him past this point and am not sure how to get him over it from here.
All of this has been really tearing me up emotionally. I'm just finding it very frustrating at this point. I just don't know what else I can do to improve the situation. I almost wish I could just set my hand out and let him go at it until it's out of his system.
Prior to this he never really wanted much to do with my left hand and would often shy away from it.
I have tried to do a pausing technique where I place my left hand just within his discomfort zone and take it away in order to get him use to it again. I started giving him treats with my left hand when I put it near him and he doesn't display aggression, which he takes without any aggression. After a while of this I was even able to get him to step up on my left hand, which he would get a treat or get pet or cuddled for doing.
Other work I've done with him has been s during trick training he get's treats with my left hand.
While in his cage I will offer to pet him through the bars with my left hand. he has only accepted a few times which earned him a reward.
Outside of his cage I will offer to pet him maybe once or twice. So far he backs away each time and I immediately withdraw so as not to seem I am forcing the issue. (He is not forced to step up on my left hand either)
Given the non aggression he displays while giving him a treat, I don't believe this is a fear response.
This may be a result of hormones as he has been trying to mate with several random things and the behavior is worse while I'm at my computer (Where the trouble first started)
Other than when I give him treats he seems to not display any aggression when I'm holding my phone in that hand. The aggressive behavior is solely focused on my left hand. I am able to pet him and cuddle him just fine otherwise and he wants to be with me otherwise.
While I have made progress with what I have done, I seem to have reached an impasse. I can go several days without aggression but h will then revert back to the biting. During the good days he does seem to just stare at my left hand. I haven't been able to get him past this point and am not sure how to get him over it from here.
All of this has been really tearing me up emotionally. I'm just finding it very frustrating at this point. I just don't know what else I can do to improve the situation. I almost wish I could just set my hand out and let him go at it until it's out of his system.