aether-drifter
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I've had my five-month-old galah for two weeks now, and we are buddies. He loves to be on me at every possible opportunity, gets upset when I leave the room, etc. Problem is, he feels the need to play every single moment he is with me. And by play, I mean gnaw on me. I'm trying to do what I can to discourage the nipping, such as always have a fun shreddable toy that I can hand him instead. It does work some of the time, but usually he just tries as hard as he can to get around the toy to my skin. I think he's starting to get that he's not allowed to bite too hard, since when he hurts me I make a noise and react in some way (throw him off balance, push him a bit, or put him down and ignore him). If he unleashed the same beak power on me that he does on his toys, I would have shed a lot more blood than I already have (he's only broken skin a few times, and it was just a little scrape). I do allow him to nibble and mouth me sometimes, to show him that if he does it GENTLY, it is okay (and to help teach him when he crosses the line). Sometimes I figure he just needs to get it out of his system. If he gets too annoying I'll move him off of me or put him on my lap with a towel and toys and treats. No luck getting him to stay on a play stand or on the floor, so far. When he wants to play, he wants to play with me. Unless he's in his cage, in which case he will play independently.
I bring him out for a movie almost every night, and when he tires of playing he'll sit on the back of the couch not doing anything. I always try to interact with him when he seems calm, but the instant I start paying attention to him he starts chewing on me again. I've also tried letting him sit with me right before bed, when I know he must be getting tired and the lights are low. Doesn't matter...he seems to think that being with me is always play time. It's not as though he's always crazy, but he's always crazy when I'm touching him. I'd like to one day be able to hold my bird without him being super hyper and bitey, whether we are just relaxing or I'm giving him scritches or whatever. Is there anything I should be doing to help him mellow out, or will he likely calm down with age? I'm getting paranoid that I'm not doing a good job of establishing our relationship, and that it's going to be really hard to undo this down the line. But honestly I don't know how much of this hyperness is just him being a baby, and how much is just him in general.
Any advice or input would be much appreciated!
I bring him out for a movie almost every night, and when he tires of playing he'll sit on the back of the couch not doing anything. I always try to interact with him when he seems calm, but the instant I start paying attention to him he starts chewing on me again. I've also tried letting him sit with me right before bed, when I know he must be getting tired and the lights are low. Doesn't matter...he seems to think that being with me is always play time. It's not as though he's always crazy, but he's always crazy when I'm touching him. I'd like to one day be able to hold my bird without him being super hyper and bitey, whether we are just relaxing or I'm giving him scritches or whatever. Is there anything I should be doing to help him mellow out, or will he likely calm down with age? I'm getting paranoid that I'm not doing a good job of establishing our relationship, and that it's going to be really hard to undo this down the line. But honestly I don't know how much of this hyperness is just him being a baby, and how much is just him in general.
Any advice or input would be much appreciated!