Another Jarvis Update

Bladesmith

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New owner of rescued Quaker Parrot, now named Jarvis.
Well it's been a few weeks since I last spoke to y'all, and it's been a busy, busy time.

Jarvis is now very much part of the family. In fact, I'm pretty sure he thinks the rest of us are here on HIS sufferance. He has adjusted to the two cats, who have gotten the idea that the top of Jarvis' cage is the place to be. Until Jarvis charges them, beak gaping, to teach them otherwise. Other times, if he's in the mood, he tolerates their presence, one at a time, and if sleeping, he gently preens them. Unless the cat wakes up, whereupon Jarvis acts like he wasn't doing anything at all. It's hysterical.

I also took him out on my screened in porch the other day, when all the local birds were singing their Springtime hearts out. He was nervous (Doesn't like finger sitting, but will ride on my shoulder like a champ) being out doors, but in moments was copying and singing back to the wild birds.

His wings, bless his tiny little heart, are healing. Repeated cleanings and applications of aloe (to soften his skin, promote healing, and encourage new feathering), and Neosporin (To fight the small amount of infection I found and accelerate his healing) are working. I'm seeing new pinfeathers bursting out all over his plucked areas. At times, he kinda looks like a bright green dandelion. A week ago, I found an old parakeet birdbath they never used and put it out on his play area. After he assaulted it and taught it who was in charge, I dabbled my fingers in it and made splashy noises. Intrigued, he came over and was soon playing in his personal penthouse pool. Water everywhere! But he had fun, if his chirping and singing were any indication.

Every morning, he shares my breakfast of Cheerios. Woe unto me if I DON'T share, because he will march down off his cage and help himself. He started to help himself to my coffee (Decaf, sugar free, getting old sucks....), but I put an end to that in a hurry., not knowing if the ingredients, real or artificial might hurt him.

He spends his days climbing around his cage, mostly watching me and calling out when I leave the room at times. (Dude....I have GOT to go pee, ok?) I call back to him to let him know I'm around, but he continues until he can see me. When sitting on the couch, he has free access in and out and frequently comes out to climb onto my shoulder and sit. He gets many pets and scritches, all day long. In fact, he gets metric tons of attention and affection.

He is prone to nipping me if I don't give him attention when he thinks he should have it, but putting him in time out when he does has curtailed that. We often forgo watching tv to listen to Pandora, so He loves to sing and dance and whistle along with my daughter and I. I also noticed he's not banded, but I've no idea what that means, if anything.

But I have two concerns. One, he doesn't seem to be inclined to play with his toys. Now, he came with a bunch of toys, but I figured he'd been stuck in his cage with them for almost 2 years, and they probably hold no thrill for him anymore. So I'd bought him a new toy when I got him, and he doesn't play with that, either. I've provided him with smaller toys, jungle balls, milk jug caps, things he can easily manipulate, but he doesn't play with those either. I know quakers in general, are supposed to be active little clown heads, but so far, nothing.

Two, while he's gotten better around her, he's not warming up to my daughter as well as I thought he might. She sings to him, and whistles, and will spend hours just talking in his direction, but he's bitten her twice now when she misjudged his reach and gotten too close. She's 10, and is very good with animals. Both bites, she never lashed out at him in pain or fear. She's just upset he doesn't like her as much as he does me. I've reminded her that it takes time, and the only reason he's attached to me so quickly is A) he was desperate for attention, and B) my daughter isn't here full time. (I'm divorced. Yes, it sucks, for a multitude of reasons. My ex and I have joint custody and live close together, by design, so my daughter spends one week on and one off with each of us.) So it'll take twice as long to get him close to her. But she's not mad at Jarvis and keeps on trying. I'm proud at how hard she's working to be his friend. Given my health issues, should I pass away suddenly, she'd become Jarvis' primary care giver, so I want them to be friends.

I'm open to suggestions.


I'm working on more pictures, but he's afraid of the camera. And paper towels, sheets of paper, towels in general......

Still and all, he's my buddy, and I adore him.
 
Sounds like things are going well for you! So happy for you both. I just read your first post and Jarvis is adorable! I know so many people like the blues and other colors but the normal greens are my favorite! I just think they are so cute.
My Quaker isn't a big fan of children. When I got him he didn't have any tail feathers because the child in his first home had pulled them all out. He sometimes tolerates my kids but mostly would prefer them to leave him alone.
You've still only had him for a short time though so I think you have the right idea that he's just not used to your daughter yet. I think her calmly talking to him and eventually offering treats is a good plan.
 
Thanks for the wonderful update! I'm happy to hear Jarvis' feathers are growing back in! A bright green dandelion, adorable description.

The decisions you make for the safety of your pets are your own. It would be remiss of me not to at least mention the dangers of allowing natural predators and prey to interact. Even the tiniest scratch from a kitty claw can cause a raging infection and in many cases lead to tragic results. Saliva, human, canine or feline is crawling with bacteria, it only takes a small amount....

It's not that unusual for parrots to bond more closely with a primary caregiver, that said, parrots often form friendships with humans they don't get to visit with on a regular basis. It sounds like you are doing all the right things to encourage a closer bond between Jarvis and your daughter. It may help to allow your daughter to take over some of the feeding and cage cleaning for Jarvis when she's home, as long as Jarvis is not inside the cage when she is cleaning. Time and patience will pay off in the long run.

I'm sorry to hear about your health issues, I'm glad you have your little girl and Jarvis to lighten your spirits. Best of luck to you and your family.
 
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Thanks for the input ladies! I'm really going into this blind, and learning on the fly. So to speak. So I appreciate all the good advice I get here. I got Jarvis as a rescue, and he was in dire straights, so I really didn't have time to do much research before taking him in. No regrets though.


Also finding out bits and pieces about him via my ex wife, who is the one who is the official rescue person. Turns out he's afraid of a LOT of things, paper towels, toys, being out of his cage (although he's better about that, he doesn't like to be away from it very far.), the list keeps growing. He's terrified of my daughters bearded dragon, even though the dragon could care less about anything but mealworms. And the crinkly play tube the cats have, he freaks anytime it makes noise.

My big brave boy is a neurotic mess it seems.
 

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