Chelsea304
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Hey everyone!
I recently was reunited with my childhood African Grey! My dad has had her for the past 10 years (It was my mothers bird since she hatched in 1999 and my dad got her in the divorce since she liked him better! )
Anyway - fast forward to this week! I've had her for about a week now! Originally, we thought she was pretty anti-social but she really has only been cage defensive (puffing or biting out of fear if you go near her in her cage but she will let you change her toys/food etc) and I am slowly teaching her that hands are good things!
When I open her door, she will come out. When I ask her to step up & she feels like it she will lift her foot and want to stay out of the cage etc.
When she is out she will not allow me to get her off of my shoulder (I think because she is afraid I will put her back in her cage). I will bring her back to the cage every so often to see if she wants to go back. Almost every time she is out now she has been randomly flying off of my (or hubby's) shoulder and since she has not really been taught to fly she will fly into stuff/the wall, etc. I'm to the point where I don't want to get her out now in fear she will hurt herself. We have begun target training to hopefully teach her to fly/land at some point. She is fully flighted and has not had her wings trimmed in a long time. I also keep all doors/windows closed, fans off, etc when she is out and I have no other pets in the home.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to isolate her and not take her out anymore...but what should I do about her flying away? Is she just done being out? I only have her out for about 30 minutes before she flies away? Is she scared? Or am I pushing her too far?
Thanks for reading and any advice would be excellent!
EDIT - I just asked my dad and she used to fly off of his shoulder as well!
I recently was reunited with my childhood African Grey! My dad has had her for the past 10 years (It was my mothers bird since she hatched in 1999 and my dad got her in the divorce since she liked him better! )
Anyway - fast forward to this week! I've had her for about a week now! Originally, we thought she was pretty anti-social but she really has only been cage defensive (puffing or biting out of fear if you go near her in her cage but she will let you change her toys/food etc) and I am slowly teaching her that hands are good things!
When I open her door, she will come out. When I ask her to step up & she feels like it she will lift her foot and want to stay out of the cage etc.
When she is out she will not allow me to get her off of my shoulder (I think because she is afraid I will put her back in her cage). I will bring her back to the cage every so often to see if she wants to go back. Almost every time she is out now she has been randomly flying off of my (or hubby's) shoulder and since she has not really been taught to fly she will fly into stuff/the wall, etc. I'm to the point where I don't want to get her out now in fear she will hurt herself. We have begun target training to hopefully teach her to fly/land at some point. She is fully flighted and has not had her wings trimmed in a long time. I also keep all doors/windows closed, fans off, etc when she is out and I have no other pets in the home.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to isolate her and not take her out anymore...but what should I do about her flying away? Is she just done being out? I only have her out for about 30 minutes before she flies away? Is she scared? Or am I pushing her too far?
Thanks for reading and any advice would be excellent!
EDIT - I just asked my dad and she used to fly off of his shoulder as well!
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